IrishDrinker and EmotionalFuckWit
Last night, I was feeling kind of off, so I called IrishDrinker to let him know that I wasn't going to go out with him to the comedy show (there is one every Tuesday).
He called back a little while later, and asked me to come out to another bar.
I said no, but then his tone changed and he simply said, "Q.S.W., please come out for an hour."
I.D. doesn't say please, and he doesn't ask nicely. I'm use too, "you are coming out NOW."
It's actually a lovable quality.
So I went.
When I got there I realized why he was so polite and serious, EmotionalFuckWit was there.
EmotionalFuckWit is a girl who I.D. has had an on again, off again, relationship with for well over 2 years. They'll go for 3 months at a time without talking, and then I won't see him for 3 months at a time because they are spending so much time together.
It takes a lot for me to dislike someone. I loathe her.
So apparently it was E.F.W.'s birthday and I.D. got convinced to come out when I cancelled on the comedy show. He was sitting right across from her, and she was cuddly and cutesy with everyone that was even remotely attractive and had a penis.
Did I mention I loathe this type of high school behavior?
When I.D. gets drunk (and this takes awhile) he starts to become ..... How should I put this.... He has a lot of emotional qualities at that point.
I.D. was drunk when I arrived.
I could tell from the "Oh thank god you are here" then the long awkward hug, then the "I love you for doing this."
Yep, he was drunk alright.
We went to the bar to get beer and apparently some guy continuously checked me out while we were waiting.
I.D. asked me if I wanted to be hooked up with him.
I stared at him blankly for 2 minutes before saying, "I.D. you know I have my S.O."
To which he replied:
"Q.S.W. you are one of the most level headed, smart, beautiful women I know. Your type make up 3 % of the woman population (I.D. likes making up satistics when he's drunk). If your S.O. ever treats you badly or you are not as happy as you are now, promise me you'll break it off with him."
I got worried at this point.
I.D. and S.O. have become friends over the last few months. They actually hang out together when I'm at home or elsewhere. So I said to him, "I.D. do you know something I don't?"
I.D. apparently realized he had made me upset because then he spent the next 5 minutes telling me how much he liked my S.O. and how wonderful a guy he was and how etc. etc. Until I finally asked when the marriage date was between the two of them.
I have no idea what really prompted this, or why he chose right then to tell me. I'm sure it had something to do with E.F.W. and how that situation is, but in the back of my head I am worried that it's something more with I.D.
I don't know if I'll ever know for sure.
He called back a little while later, and asked me to come out to another bar.
I said no, but then his tone changed and he simply said, "Q.S.W., please come out for an hour."
I.D. doesn't say please, and he doesn't ask nicely. I'm use too, "you are coming out NOW."
It's actually a lovable quality.
So I went.
When I got there I realized why he was so polite and serious, EmotionalFuckWit was there.
EmotionalFuckWit is a girl who I.D. has had an on again, off again, relationship with for well over 2 years. They'll go for 3 months at a time without talking, and then I won't see him for 3 months at a time because they are spending so much time together.
It takes a lot for me to dislike someone. I loathe her.
So apparently it was E.F.W.'s birthday and I.D. got convinced to come out when I cancelled on the comedy show. He was sitting right across from her, and she was cuddly and cutesy with everyone that was even remotely attractive and had a penis.
Did I mention I loathe this type of high school behavior?
When I.D. gets drunk (and this takes awhile) he starts to become ..... How should I put this.... He has a lot of emotional qualities at that point.
I.D. was drunk when I arrived.
I could tell from the "Oh thank god you are here" then the long awkward hug, then the "I love you for doing this."
Yep, he was drunk alright.
We went to the bar to get beer and apparently some guy continuously checked me out while we were waiting.
I.D. asked me if I wanted to be hooked up with him.
I stared at him blankly for 2 minutes before saying, "I.D. you know I have my S.O."
To which he replied:
"Q.S.W. you are one of the most level headed, smart, beautiful women I know. Your type make up 3 % of the woman population (I.D. likes making up satistics when he's drunk). If your S.O. ever treats you badly or you are not as happy as you are now, promise me you'll break it off with him."
I got worried at this point.
I.D. and S.O. have become friends over the last few months. They actually hang out together when I'm at home or elsewhere. So I said to him, "I.D. do you know something I don't?"
I.D. apparently realized he had made me upset because then he spent the next 5 minutes telling me how much he liked my S.O. and how wonderful a guy he was and how etc. etc. Until I finally asked when the marriage date was between the two of them.
I have no idea what really prompted this, or why he chose right then to tell me. I'm sure it had something to do with E.F.W. and how that situation is, but in the back of my head I am worried that it's something more with I.D.
I don't know if I'll ever know for sure.
posted by sipwine at 9:29 AM
2 Comments:
I can completely see why you would read into his comment, but from what you wrote, I think he was pulling the "protective big brother" thing. He was just saying that he admires you and wants you to be treated well. Of course, I would have read into it, also.. But as an objective person in this case, I say don't sweat it. : )
~Fab
Thank you Fab! I needed to hear an outsider's objective opinion, I think I'm leaning towards forgetting about it anyway, but it's nice to hear someone agrees
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