Matt and being a friend?
Randomly I ran into Matt in a parking garage on my way to see GH.
We said we were going to be friends, so I said hello, stopped, and chatted with him a bit.
He asked me about my eye (which was still red at the time) and I told him the story. I told him how the doctor gave me 16 vicodin pills to help with an eye. Impressed and shocked (he's a biomedical engineer so he thought that was a little over kill)he asked if he could have a couple.
He had cronic back pain when we dated and sometimes he couldn't sleep at night because of it. Feeling bad for him, I gave him 3.
Whether I should have done this or not, I still haven't decided. Part of me thinks it was fine, the other half feels like I could be arrested tomorrow. Whatever, I guess I made the decision and now I'll live with it.
While we were chatting (it was only 5 - 10 minutes) I told him this weekend I was going out as a Playboy bunny with my brother's ex girlfriend. He laughed said some funny comment about how he was going to be at the Where Else? Bar (the only bar I'd never be at), so he knew I wouldn't show up.
When we parted ways, he said something about having to run to Wal-mart to find a new costume because he was going to Hugh Hefner but now he was going to have to find a new costume.
I walked away finding that weird, but I wasn't really caring because I was worried that GH would be wondering where I was.
I found GH and told him what happened. He found it mildly odd, but for the most part he didn't care.
That was before the text messages.
I had told Matt that I was worried about drinking Friday and Saturday because I would be taking Vicodins in the morning and I was worried if that would affect my liver.
At midnight on Friday night I got a text message that said, "Still alive?"
Me: You were right, that combo got me drunk very quickly
Him: Be careful
Me: Going home.
Him: Wait, I came out just to see your costume
I didn't respond.
The next night, at 3 am.
Him: Are you guys coming out tonight?
Him: I just got out of a party with CJ, it was horrible (CJ was a friend of mine back in the day).
I was asleep next to GH and I didn't receive the message until the next morning at 10.
Me: Um... I was out, sorry I didn't call.
Him: (around 11)Yea, thanks alot. The party sucked too.
Me:Aw, poor thing.
Him: Tease
I didn't really know what to say or do after that so I just left it.
I.D. would call this, either A.) Ex is suffering and wants to be masochistic or B.) He wants to regain my trust and re-enter my life.
When we broke up I let Matt believe he was doing most of the break up, in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he felt he did all of it.
So I guess he's being masochistic.
We said we were going to be friends, so I said hello, stopped, and chatted with him a bit.
He asked me about my eye (which was still red at the time) and I told him the story. I told him how the doctor gave me 16 vicodin pills to help with an eye. Impressed and shocked (he's a biomedical engineer so he thought that was a little over kill)he asked if he could have a couple.
He had cronic back pain when we dated and sometimes he couldn't sleep at night because of it. Feeling bad for him, I gave him 3.
Whether I should have done this or not, I still haven't decided. Part of me thinks it was fine, the other half feels like I could be arrested tomorrow. Whatever, I guess I made the decision and now I'll live with it.
While we were chatting (it was only 5 - 10 minutes) I told him this weekend I was going out as a Playboy bunny with my brother's ex girlfriend. He laughed said some funny comment about how he was going to be at the Where Else? Bar (the only bar I'd never be at), so he knew I wouldn't show up.
When we parted ways, he said something about having to run to Wal-mart to find a new costume because he was going to Hugh Hefner but now he was going to have to find a new costume.
I walked away finding that weird, but I wasn't really caring because I was worried that GH would be wondering where I was.
I found GH and told him what happened. He found it mildly odd, but for the most part he didn't care.
That was before the text messages.
I had told Matt that I was worried about drinking Friday and Saturday because I would be taking Vicodins in the morning and I was worried if that would affect my liver.
At midnight on Friday night I got a text message that said, "Still alive?"
Me: You were right, that combo got me drunk very quickly
Him: Be careful
Me: Going home.
Him: Wait, I came out just to see your costume
I didn't respond.
The next night, at 3 am.
Him: Are you guys coming out tonight?
Him: I just got out of a party with CJ, it was horrible (CJ was a friend of mine back in the day).
I was asleep next to GH and I didn't receive the message until the next morning at 10.
Me: Um... I was out, sorry I didn't call.
Him: (around 11)Yea, thanks alot. The party sucked too.
Me:Aw, poor thing.
Him: Tease
I didn't really know what to say or do after that so I just left it.
I.D. would call this, either A.) Ex is suffering and wants to be masochistic or B.) He wants to regain my trust and re-enter my life.
When we broke up I let Matt believe he was doing most of the break up, in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he felt he did all of it.
So I guess he's being masochistic.
posted by sipwine at 4:38 PM
2 Comments:
He's hoping for you too think that he really is a nice guy, and that if he can get you into a social situation without GH and there is alcohol involved he may get to shag you one more time...or hit on your friends and shag them.
Awesome insight.
I'll be more wary from now on.
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